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Momet Alex vs Asha John
2021 Latest Caselaw 18877 Ker

Citation : 2021 Latest Caselaw 18877 Ker
Judgement Date : 10 September, 2021

Kerala High Court
Momet Alex vs Asha John on 10 September, 2021
                 IN THE HIGH COURT OF KERALA AT ERNAKULAM
                                  PRESENT
               THE HONOURABLE MR. JUSTICE A.MUHAMED MUSTAQUE
                                     &
               THE HONOURABLE DR. JUSTICE KAUSER EDAPPAGATH
     FRIDAY, THE 10TH DAY OF SEPTEMBER 2021 / 19TH BHADRA, 1943
                        MAT.APPEAL NO. 971 OF 2017
         AGAINST THE JUDGMENT IN O.P.NO.706/2013 OF FAMILY COURT,
                     PATHANAMTHITTA, DATED 29.03.2017
                                -----------
APPELLANT/S:

     1       MOMET ALEX, AGED 39 YEARS,
             S/O.LATE ALEXANDER, R/O. MUTHIRAPARAMBIL,
             KOODAL P.O, KOODAL MURI, KOODAL VILLAGE,
             KALANJOOR PANCHAYATH, ADOOR TALUK,
             PATHANAMTHITTA DISTRICT.
     2       KUNJAMMA ALEX, AGED 70 YEARS,
             W/O. LATE ALEXANDER, R/O MUTHIRAPARAMBIL,
             KOODAL P.O, KOODAL MURI, KOODAL VILLAGE,
             KULANJOOR PANCHAYATH, ADOOR TALUK,
             PATHANAMTHITTA DISTRICT.
             BY ADV SRI.V.PHILIP MATHEW


RESPONDENT/S:

             ASHA JOHN, AGED 35 YEARS, W/O. MOMET ALEX,
             R/O.CHAKKALAMANNIL, KOODAL MURI, KOODAL VILLAGE, ADOOR
             TALUK, PATHANAMTHITTA DISTRICT, PIN-689 693.
             BY ADVS.
             SRI.M.JAYAKRISHNAN
             SRI.G.UNNIKRISHNAN


THIS MATRIMONIAL APPEAL HAVING BEEN FINALLY HEARD
ON 04.08.2021, ALONG WITH Mat.Appeal NO.1146/2018,
THE COURT ON 10.09.2021 DELIVERED THE FOLLOWING:
                  IN THE HIGH COURT OF KERALA AT ERNAKULAM
                                  PRESENT
               THE HONOURABLE MR. JUSTICE A.MUHAMED MUSTAQUE
                                     &
               THE HONOURABLE DR. JUSTICE KAUSER EDAPPAGATH
     FRIDAY, THE 10TH DAY OF SEPTEMBER 2021 / 19TH BHADRA, 1943
                        MAT.APPEAL NO. 1146 OF 2018
   AGAINST THE JUDGMENT IN O.P.(DIV.)NO.197/2016 OF FAMILY COURT,
                     PATHANAMTHITTA, DATED 29.03.2017
                              --------------
APPELLANT/S:

           MOMET ALEX, AGED 39 YEARS,
           S/O LATE ALEXANDER, R/O MUTHIRAPARAMBIL,
           KOODAL P.O., KOODAL MURI, KOODAL VILLAGE,
           KALANJOOR PANCHAYATH, ADOOR TALUK,
           PATHANAMTHITTA DISTRICT.
           BY ADVS.
           V.PHILIP MATHEW
           SRI.GIBI.C.GEORGE


RESPONDENT/S:

           ASHA JOHN, AGED 35 YEARS,
           W/O MOMET ALEX, R/O CHAKKALAMANNIL,
           KOODAL MURI, KOODAL VILLAGE, ADOOR TALUK, PATHANAMTHITTA
           DISTRICT-689693.
           BY ADVS.
           SRI.G.UNNIKRISHNAN
           SRI.M.JAYAKRISHNAN


THIS MATRIMONIAL APPEAL HAVING BEEN FINALLY HEARD
ON 04.08.2021, ALONG WITH Mat.Appeal NO.971 OF
2017, THE COURT ON 10.09.2021 DELIVERED THE
FOLLOWING:
    A.MUHAMED MUSTAQUE & DR.KAUSER EDAPPAGATH, JJ.

                    =========================

             Mat. Appeal Nos.971/2017 & 1146/2018

             ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

            Dated this the 10th day of September, 2021

                         JUDGMENT

A.Muhamed Mustaque, J.

These matrimonial appeals relate to denial of divorce to the

husband and allowing a claim for recovery of patrimony from the

husband and his mother. Both matters were tried together by the

Family Court, Pathanamthitta. A common judgment was passed

on 29/3/2017. For the sake of brevity, we refer the parties as per

their marital status.

Mat. Appeal Nos.971/2017 & 1146/2018

2. We shall first advert to M.A.No. 971/2017, the appeal filed

by the husband and his mother challenging the direction for

recovery of money. The marriage took place in accordance with

the Christian Community ceremonies and rites on 30/6/2003. It

is the admitted case of both the parties that the wife's parents

promised to give Rs.3,50,000/- as patrimony. There was also no

dispute to the fact that Rs.1,50,000/- was received by the husband

and his family. The above amount was deposited in the State

Bank of Travancore, Pathanapuram Branch in the joint name of

the husband and wife. The amount is now lying in the bank and

as on 27/12/2012, with the accrued interest, the amount available

in the account was Rs.2,59,015/-.

3. One of the prayers of the wife in the petition for recovery of

patrimony from the husband and his mother was to declare that

the amount lying in the joint account belongs to her. That prayer Mat. Appeal Nos.971/2017 & 1146/2018

has been allowed by the Family Court. There was a serious

dispute in regard to payment of Rs.2,00,000/-, out of

Rs.3,50,000/-. According to the husband, that amount was never

paid, though it was promised. The Family Court overruled this

objection and found that the husband and his family are liable to

pay that amount. The Family Court relied on the evidence of the

wife and her father. However, the Family Court rejected the

claim for value of gold ornaments allegedly entrusted with the

husband and his family and misappropriated by them. There is

no challenge against dismissal of that claim.

4. Admittedly, the money now lying in the joint account was

given by the father of the wife at the time of marriage. We,

therefore, find no difficulty to hold that she alone is entitled for

that amount. The declaration granted by the Family Court,

therefore, does not require any interference.

Mat. Appeal Nos.971/2017 & 1146/2018

5. In regard to the claim for Rs.2,00,000/-, it was alleged that

PW2, the father of the wife entrusted the amount with the

husband's father on 10/7/2003. He explained the source of the

amount and entrustment of the amount as narrated above. It is

the admitted case that at the time of marriage, wife's father

agreed to pay a sum of Rs.3,50,000/- as patrimony. The

husband's case that the above amount was never paid is

unbelievable. In Christian community, there is a practice of

handing over the share as patrimony at the time of marriage.

This Court in Bexy Michael v. A.J.Michael [2010 (4) KHC 376)

took judicial notice of such practice. We are in complete

agreement with the judgment of the Division Bench as above.

We, therefore, hold that the wife is entitled for return of

Rs.2,00,000/- as well. We, accordingly, affirm the finding of the

Family Court. M.A.No.971/2017 filed by the husband and his

mother is, therefore, only to be dismissed.

Mat. Appeal Nos.971/2017 & 1146/2018

6. The other appeal, M.A.No.1146/2018 is filed by the husband,

aggrieved by the dismissal of petition for divorce filed by him.

The grounds canvassed for divorce are alleging cruelty and

unsound mind attributable to the wife. To substantiate the claim

for divorce, the husband was examined. A Psychiatrist was also

examined on the side of the husband. It is alleged by the husband

that the wife used to abuse his mother often and also had

manhandled her. It is also stated by him that she used to doubt

the fidelity of the husband. It is further stated by him that his

brother was working abroad and his brother's wife was residing

near to his house and the appellant's wife used to cook up stories

having illicit relationship with the brother's wife. It is also his

case that the wife is having mental ailment and on account of this,

she had serious behavioural problem. The wife denied all the

allegations. According to her, the marital life was smooth till the

demise of husband's father on 4/12/2008. It is alleged by her that Mat. Appeal Nos.971/2017 & 1146/2018

after the demise of husband's father, husband and his mother

used to torture her. It is also stated by her that they insisted for

payment of a further amount of Rs.2,00,000/- as patrimony. It is

contended by her that the husband and mother colluded together

and filed a civil suit and based on the order of civil court she was

thrown out of the matrimonial house. She stated that the

husband made arrangements to consult a Doctor of his choice

and took her to the hospital. According to her, she never suffered

any mental ailment.

7. In the wedlock, a child was born. The husband was working

in military at the time of marriage. The wife in the chief

examination had stated that the marital life was not smooth.

According to her, there was a constant demand for patrimony.

The wife never admitted that she had any mental ailment. In the

chief examination itself she has stated that marriage has been Mat. Appeal Nos.971/2017 & 1146/2018

made miserable by the mother-in-law. She attributed cruelty on

the husband and his mother. In this case, the oral testimony of

the Doctor and Ext.X1 medical records are crucial. The Doctor

stated that the wife was admitted on 13/4/2010 in St.Vincent

Hospital and she was discharged on 29/4/2010. It was stated by

him that the wife was violent when she was brought to the

hospital and she was administered a sedative injunction. In the

case history it was recorded that she was having doubt on the

husband and there were quarrels between them on making

phone calls. It was also recorded that the husband insisted for

divorce. It was also stated by the Doctor that she came for

treatment on a few more occasions. Ext.X1 is the patient's record.

It is recorded in the case history the following:

Mat. Appeal Nos.971/2017 & 1146/2018

Mat. Appeal Nos.971/2017 & 1146/2018

The Doctor diagnosed her suffering from schizophrenia.

8. The medical records and the evidence and pleadings of the

husband clearly establish the pattern of behaviour of the wife.

Though divorce was sought on the ground of unsound mind as

referable under Section 10 (1)(iii) of the Divorce Act 1869, the

ailment as above cannot be treated as something falling under the

above ground. We are also not adverting to this inasmuch as

there were no arguments at the Bar in regard to divorce on the

ground of unsound mind of the wife. Much argument has been Mat. Appeal Nos.971/2017 & 1146/2018

raised relying on the medical evidence to substantiate the claim

for divorce on the ground of cruelty.

9. Before adverting to the ailment and related behaviour of the

wife and the claim for divorce on the ground of cruelty, we shall

advert to some of the precedents of the Apex Court. The Apex

Court in Vinitha Saxena v. Pankaj Pandit [2006 (2) KLT 150 (SC)]

adverted to cruel behaviour attributable to Schizophrenia and

concluded at para.18 as follows:

18. The appellant filed a petition for divorce under S.13(1)(i-a) and (iii) of the Act on the ground of mental and physical cruelty. It is also her case that on account of Paranoid Schizophrenia that the respondent was suffering from, the appellant could not be reasonably expected to live with the respondent.

The Apex Court also adverted to the disease schizophrenia and its

causes at paras.22 to 25 as follows:

A RESEARCH ON THE DISEASE "Schizophernia is one of the most damaging of all mental disorders. It causes its victims to lose touch with reality. They often begin to hear, see or feel things that aren't really there (hallucinations) or become convinced of things that simply aren't true (delusions). Mat. Appeal Nos.971/2017 & 1146/2018

In the paranoid form of this disorder, they develop delusions of persecution or personal grandeur. The first signs of paranoid schizophrenia usually surface between the ages of 15 and 34. There is no cure, but the disorder can be controlled with medications. Severe attacks may require hospitalization."

What is the disease and what one should know?

* A psychotic lacks insight, has the whole of his personality distorted by illness, and constructs a false environment out of his subjective experiences.

* It is customary to define 'delusion' more or less in the following way. A delusion is a false unshakeable belief, which is out of keeping with the patient's social and cultural background.' German psychiatrists tend to stress the morbid origin of the delusion, and quite rightly so. A delusion is the product of internal morbid processes and this is what makes it unamenable to external influences.

• Apophanuous experiences which occur in acute schizophrenia and form the basis of delusions of persecution, but these delusions are also the result of auditory hallucinations, bodily hallucinations and experiences of passivity. Delusions of persecution can take many forms. In delusions of reference, the patient feels that people are talking about him, slandering him or spying on him. It may be difficult to be certain if the patient has delusions of self-reference or if he has self-reference hallucinosis. Ideas of delusions or reference are not confined to schizophrenia, but can occur in depressive illness and psychogenic reactions.

Causes

The causes of schizophrenia are still under debate. A chemical imbalance in the brain seems to play a role, but the reason for the imbalance remains unclear. One is a bit more likely to become schizophrenic if he has a family member with the illness. Stress does not cause schizophrenia, but can make the symptoms worse. Mat. Appeal Nos.971/2017 & 1146/2018

Risks

Without medication and therapy, most paranoid schizophrenics are unable to function in the real world. If they fall victim to severe hallucinations and delusions, they can be a danger to themselves and those around them.

What is schizophrenia?

Schizophrenia is a chronic, disabling mental illness characterized by:

  *    Psychotic symptoms


  *    Disordered thinking


  •    Emotional blunting


  How does schizophrenia develop?


Schizophrenia generally develops in late adolescence or early adulthood, most often:

  *    In the late teens or early twenties in men


  *    In the twenties to early thirties in women


  What are the symptoms of schizophrenia?


Although schizophrenia is chronic, symptoms may improve at times (periods of remission) and worsen at other times (acute episodes, or period of relapse). Initial symptoms appear gradually and can include:

  *    Feeling tense
 Mat. Appeal Nos.971/2017 & 1146/2018




  *    Difficulty concentrating


  *    Difficulty sleeping


  *    Social withdrawal


  What are psychotic symptoms?


  Psychotic symptoms include:


  *    Hallucinations: hearing voices or seeing things


  *    Delusions: bizarre beliefs with no basis in reality (for example, delusions of
  persecution or delusions of grandeur)


These symptoms occur during acute or psychotic phases of the illness, but may improve during periods of remission.


  A patient may experience


  *    A single psychotic episode during the course of the illness


  *    Multiple psychotic episodes over a lifetime


  *    Continuous psychotic episodes


During a psychotic episode, the patient is not completely out of touch with reality. Nevertheless, he/she has difficulty distinguishing distorted perceptions of reality (hallucinations, delusions) from reality, contributing to feelings of fear, anxiety, and confusion.

The disorder can prove dangerous for some - especially when symptoms of paranoia Mat. Appeal Nos.971/2017 & 1146/2018

combine with the delusional symptoms of schizophrenia. In fact, doctors say paranoid schizophrenics are notorious for discontinuing the treatments which help control their symptoms.

10. In Shrikant Anandrao Bhosale v. State of Maharashtra

[(2002) 7 SCC 748] the Apex Court at paras 10 and 11 referred

to about paranoid schizophrenia as follows:

10. What is paranoid schizophrenia, when it starts, what are its characteristics and dangers flowing from this ailment? Paranoid schizophrenia, in the vast majority of cases, starts in the fourth decade and develops insidiously. Suspiciousness is the characteristic symptom of the early stage. Ideas of reference occur, which gradually develop into delusions of persecution. Auditory hallucinations follow, which in the beginning, start as sounds or noises in the ears, but afterwards change into abuses or insults. Delusions are at first indefinite, but gradually they become fixed and definite, to lead the patient to believe that he is persecuted by some unknown person or some superhuman agency. He believes that his food is being poisoned, some noxious gases are blown into his room, and people are plotting against him to ruin him. Disturbances of general sensation give rise to hallucinations, which are attributed to the effects of hypnotism, electricity, wireless telegraphy or atomic agencies. The patient gets very irritated and excited owing to these painful and disagreeable hallucinations and delusions. Since so many people are against him and are interested in his ruin, he comes to believe that he must be a very important man. The nature of delusions thus may change from persecutory to the grandiose type. He entertains delusions of grandeur, power and wealth, and generally conducts himself in a haughty and overbearing manner. The patient usually retains his memory and orientation and does not show signs of insanity, until the conversations is directed to the particular type of delusion from which he is suffering. When delusions affect his behaviour, he is often a source of Mat. Appeal Nos.971/2017 & 1146/2018

danger to himself and to others. (Modi's Medical Jurisprudence and Toxicology (22nd Edn.)).

11. Further, according to Modi, the cause of schizophrenia is still not known but hereditary plays a part. The irritation and excitement are effects of illness. On delusion affecting behaviour of a patient, he is a source of danger to himself and to others.

11. It is to be noted that, in the case in hand, the wife had never

admitted or accepted her ailment of schizophrenia. She, in fact,

had put up a case that it was her husband, who took her to the

hospital to attribute mental illness. We have gone through the

deposition of the Doctor, who was examined as RW2. The

treatment was in the year 2010. The case for divorce was filed

only in the year 2013. As seen from the medical records, she was

taken to the hospital by her maternal uncle. The Doctor had also

spoken to her mother. She disclosed to the Doctor that the wife

was also treated at St.Gregorius Hospital, Parumala, on an earlier

occasion. The medical records and testimony of the Doctor would

show that the husband and family had no role in taking the wife

to the hospital. Paranoid schizophrenia is a mental illness. The Mat. Appeal Nos.971/2017 & 1146/2018

literature on this which is available online would show that the

patient would show up in different ways at different times; and

they are unreasonably suspicious of others.( 1) These patients carry

delusions as fixed beliefs and feel that those are real to him or

her. In the light of the medical evidence, we need not disbelieve

the oral testimony of the husband in regard to the suspicion she

had on the fidelity of the husband. We also need not to disbelieve

the oral testimony of the husband narrating wife's conduct

towards his mother. In fact, the wife failed to prove cruelty by the

husband or his mother. The Court cannot grant divorce merely

based on the ailment of one's spouse. However, when a spouse

refuses to acknowledge ailment and treatment, the Court has to

view seriously of such stand of the spouse. It is not a case where

one was prepared to undergo treatment and come out of the

ailment. It is a case where one prefers to suppress the ailment

1 https://www.webmd.com/schizophrenia/schizophrenia-paranoia viewed on 9/9/2021 Mat. Appeal Nos.971/2017 & 1146/2018

and raises counter allegations as against the other spouse

without any reason.

12. In Kollam Chandra Sekhar v. Kollam Padma Latha [(2014) 1

SCC 225], the Apex Court held that merely for the reason that a

wife suffered schizophrenia, the divorce cannot be granted. The

facts in the above case show that the husband failed to prove that

wife was suffering from serious case of schizopernia. There was

also no serious psychotic illness. Further, the wife responded to

the treatment very well.

13. In the present case, the wife refused to acknowledge that she

is suffering from the ailment. The medical records and Doctor's

evidence clearly establish that she suffered an acute form of

ailment. If she refuses to accept it, that itself will make the

relationship miserable. "Cruelty", essentially, is accepted as a Mat. Appeal Nos.971/2017 & 1146/2018

ground for divorce on the principles of fault for worsening the

marital relationship .

14. A spouse cannot be forced to live with another with whom the

other spouse cannot maintain any normal relationship that is

expected in marital life. If one spouse behaves in such a manner,

mindless of the consequence of her ailments and refuses to

acknowledge the same and expects the other spouse to continue

the relationship, is nothing but cruelty.

15. The learned counsel for the wife placing reliance on

Jayakrishnan G.Nair v. Salini Prasanna Balachandran Nair [2013

(2) KHC 268] and Beena v. Sundaresan [2016 (1) KLT 546]

argued that no case has been made out by the husband as there

were no proper pleadings in the petition. The pleadings clearly set

out the nature of the behaviour. The husband brought medical

evidence to prove the nature of behavior. The Court is not Mat. Appeal Nos.971/2017 & 1146/2018

granting any divorce on account of unsound mind. Of course, to

grant such divorce, pleadings are lacking. But the pleadings in

regard to the cruel behaviour have been clearly set out in the

petition and have been substantiated by evidence. We, in such

circumstances, hold that the husband succeeded in proving the

divorce on account of cruelty.

Accordingly, we dismiss M.A.No.971/2017 and allow

M.A.No.1146/2018 and declare that the marriage solemnised

between the appellant and the respondent on 30.6.2003 is

dissolved by a decree of divorce. No order as to costs.

Sd/- A.MUHAMED MUSTAQUE, JUDGE

Sd/- DR.KAUSER EDAPPAGATH, JUDGE

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