Citation : 2021 Latest Caselaw 17103 Ker
Judgement Date : 13 August, 2021
IN THE HIGH COURT OF KERALA AT ERNAKULAM
PRESENT
THE HONOURABLE MR. JUSTICE A.MUHAMED MUSTAQUE
&
THE HONOURABLE DR. JUSTICE KAUSER EDAPPAGATH
FRIDAY, THE 13TH DAY OF AUGUST 2021 / 22ND SRAVANA, 1943
MAT.APPEAL NO. 454 OF 2018
AGAINST THE JUDGMENT IN OP 484/2012 OF FAMILY COURT,
IRINJALAKUDA, THRISSUR
APPELLANT/PETITIONER:
RAJESH CHANDRASEKHAR
AGED 35 YEARS
S/O.KOLATHEKAT CHANDRASEKHARAN,VALSALYAM, NGP
IX/269,THRIPRAYAR,NATTIKA VILLAGE,VALAPPAD
P.O.,THRISSUR DISTRICT,KERALA-680 567.
BY ADVS.
SMT.SUMATHY DANDAPANI (SR.)
SRI.MILLU DANDAPANI
RESPONDENT/RESPONDENT:
PRATHIBHA RIJESH
AGED 33 YEARS,D/O.P.A.VIJAYAN,PONNETH
HOUSE,ELINJIPRA P.O., CHALAKUDY,
THRISSUR,KERALA-680 721.
BY ADV SRI.K.B.GANGESH
THIS MATRIMONIAL APPEAL HAVING COME UP FOR ADMISSION ON
6.08.2021, THE COURT ON 13.08.2021 DELIVERED THE FOLLOWING:
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J U D G M E N T
Dated this the 13th day of August, 2021
Kauser Edappagath, J.
The husband is the appellant. The wife is the respondent.
The original petition for dissolution of marriage on the ground of
cruelty filed by the husband as OP No.484/2012 at the Family
Court, Irinjalakuda was dismissed as per the judgment dated
24/2/2018. The said judgment is under challenge in this appeal.
2. The marriage between the appellant and the
respondent was solemnised on 19/4/2008 as per religious rites
and ceremonies. In the wedlock, a child was born on 8/5/2011. At
the time of marriage, the appellant was working as Assistant
Manger in ICICI Securities at Ahmadabad. After the marriage, the
respondent went to Ahmadabad and joined the appellant. They
were residing at an apartment at Ahmadabad. According to the
appellant, during the initial days, the respondent was exhibiting
love and affection towards him and by passage of time, she
started to argue, pick up quarrel and fight for silly incidents. It
was alleged that the respondent was bad tempered, constantly
using filthy language and arguing with him without any reason. Mat.Appeal No.454/2018
She showed complete disinterest in all household functions and
refused to attend her duties as a wife. He alleged that there were
regular instances of outrage and resentment causing serious
mental agony and pain to him. According to him, she was
dancing in tune with the directions of her mother. He added that
there were instances of inflicting assault and physical injury by
the respondent on him. He specifically alleged that on
13/4/2009, in the evening, while he and respondent were
returning in their car to the flat after shopping, she started
fighting ferociously, slapped and scribbled on his face with nails
and when he stopped the car, she opened the door and ran away.
After the said incident, on the next day, she left the flat and went
to her parents' place. She was staying with her parents till
August, 2009 and on 2/9/2009, after the intervention of the
relatives, she came back to his flat and they again started to
reside together. Thereafter, the appellant was transferred to
Bombay and the respondent accompanied him. In the month of
September 2010, the respondent became pregnant and on the
seventh month of her pregnancy she went to her parental home.
It was alleged that thereafter even though the appellant made
several attempts to call over phone to enquire about her well- Mat.Appeal No.454/2018
being and health conditions, the respondent did not positively
respond instead, again she started to pick up quarrel with him. It
was further alleged that her parents even did not allow him to
talk with her over phone. According to the appellant, the
respondent and her parents abused and humiliated him and also
threatened him by saying that he would not be allowed to see the
face of the child. Even though the baby was delivered, he was not
informed in time or he was not even informed details regarding
the delivery of the child. It was further alleged that when the
appellant went to see the newborn child, the respondent and her
family members fully disregarded him and engaged in scolding
and abusing. The appellant was not allowed to take the child
even. According to him, he was under tremendous pain and
pressure since he was unable to see the child. The child was fully
alienated from him. The appellant has also highlighted another
incident in which the police was called to the apartment at
Bombay and created a scene and he was ridiculed in front of the
police and local public who gathered there. The appellant
specifically stated that the respondent has never been a loving,
faithful and caring wife, on the contrary, she made his life
miserable. It was in these circumstances, the appellant preferred Mat.Appeal No.454/2018
the original petition for dissolution of marriage on the ground of
cruelty.
3. The respondent entered appearance before the court
below and filed detailed counter statement. She specifically
denied various instances of cruelty allegedly exercised by her on
the appellant and pleaded in the original petition. According to
her, she was very loving and cordial with the appellant and it was
the appellant who often quarreled with her and failed to
discharge the marital obligation. She sought for the dismissal of
the petition.
4. The parties went on trial. The appellant himself gave
evidence as PW1 and four witnesses were examined as PWs 2 to
5. Exts. A1 to A8 were marked on his side. The respondent
herself gave evidence as RW1. Exts. B1 to B8 were marked on her
side. After trial, the court below dismissed the petition holding
that the evidence on record is insufficient to prove the cruelty as
per the impugned judgment. Challenging the said judgment, this
appeal has been preferred.
5. Heard Smt. Sumathi Dandapani, the learned Senior
Counsel for the appellant and Sri. K.B. Gangesh, the learned
Counsel for the respondent.
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6. Normally, the matrimonial cruelty - be physical or
mental - takes place within the four walls of the matrimonial
home and, therefore, independent witness may not be available.
However, in this case, the appellant, apart from his own oral
testimony, has examined four witnesses, PWs 2 to 5. The definite
case of the appellant is that over the course of marriage with
him, the respondent has exercised cruelty, both physical and
mental, ranging from several mental agony by constantly using
filthy language, abdicating all shared household duties, physically
assaulting him, willfully alienating his child from him etc. making
his life miserable. The various acts of cruelty, both physical and
mental, as well as harassment, meted out by him at the hands of
the respondent at Ahmadabad, Bombay as well as at native place
have been spoken to in detail by the appellant. Even though he
has been cross-examined in length, nothing tangible has been
brought out in the cross-examination to discredit his testimony. It
has come out in his evidence that the respondent has caused
innumerable mental stress and pain by constantly showering
abusive words and filthy language towards him while they were
living at Ahmadabad, Mumbai and during their short stays at the
native place. Regular instances of outrage and resentment on Mat.Appeal No.454/2018
the part of the respondent has been spoken to in detail by the
appellant. It has come out in evidence that the mother of the
respondent also used to pick up quarrel with him and abuse him.
The evidence would further show that after the delivery of the
child, the appellant was denied even access to the child by the
respondent and her mother. The appellant has even spoken few
instances where he was physically assaulted by the respondent.
There is nothing to disbelieve the said version. It has further
come out in evidence that several mediation were taken place
and they were reunited several times. Still, the respondent
continued to exercise cruelty on the appellant. There was also an
instance where on the basis of a complaint filed by the
respondent, the police came to the apartment, local people also
gathered there and the appellant was ridiculed and humiliated in
front of them. The said complaint was not pursued further. The
appellant specifically deposed that after short while of the
marriage, there has been a sustained cause of abusive and
humiliating treatment and reprehensible conduct on the part of
the respondent.
7. The evidence given by PW1 gets corroboration from
the oral testimony of PWs2 to 5 and Exts. A2, A4 and A7. PW2 is Mat.Appeal No.454/2018
the uncle of the appellant. He has been examined to prove
Ext.A2. Ext.A2 is a statement signed and given by the father of
the respondent. PW2 is a witness to Ext.A2. It is dated 2/9/2009.
A reading of Ext.A2 would show that there was some serious
issue between the appellant and the respondent at the instance
of the respondent and the respondent has assured that she would
not repeat the same. PW3 is the mother of the appellant. She
gave evidence in tune with the evidence given by the appellant.
She has also reiterated various acts of cruelty, both physical and
mental, exercised by the respondent on the appellant. PW4 and
PW5 are independent witnesses. They knew the appellant and the
respondent. PW4 deposed that on so many occasions, the
appellant had told him about the cruelty exercised by the
respondent. True, mostly his evidence is in the form of hearsay.
But, his evidence would show that on one occasion when he
asked the respondent about the issues between her and the
appellant, she responded in a rude manner. PW5 deposed that
while the appellant and the respondent were residing at Mumbai,
he had gone to their flat in 2009 December and he had witnessed
the respondent behaving with the appellant in a rude and
indifferent manner in front of him. He further deposed that he Mat.Appeal No.454/2018
had also witnessed an occasion where a police reached their flat
at Mumbai on the basis of a false complaint made by the
respondent. There is nothing to disbelieve the evidence of PWs 2
to 4 as well. Ext. A4 is an undertaking given by the respondent
dated 16/4/2009. In the said document the respondent has stated
that if her parents misbehave with the appellant, she is agreeable
for divorce. Ext. A7 is a copy of the complaint dated 1/8/2011
given by the appellant to the Inspector in Charge, Kharghar Police
Station, Mumbai alleging harassment on the part of the
respondent.
8. It is settled that to constitute cruelty, the conduct
complained of need not necessarily be so grave and severe so as
to make cohabitation virtually unendurable or of such character
so as to cause danger to life, limb or health. It is sufficient if the
conduct and behaviour of one spouse towards the other is of such
a nature that it causes reasonable apprehension in the mind of
the latter that it is not safe for him or her to continue the marital
tie. Mental cruelty may also consist of verbal abuses and insults
by using filthy and abusive language leading to constant
disturbance of mental peace of the other party. The intentional
alienation of the child by one parent from the other parent also Mat.Appeal No.454/2018
amount to mental cruelty. From the kind of attitude, conduct and
treatment discussed in the preceding paragraphs, it can readily
be inferred that the appellant has every reason to apprehend that
it is not safe for him to continue the matrimonial relationship with
the respondent.
9. On an over all appreciation of the pleadings and
evidence, we find that the appellant and the respondent were at
loggerheads soon after their marriage. The marriage is virtually
shattered. The couple has been unable to patch up their
differences so far. The allegations and counter allegations
levelled against each other establish that there is no further
chance of rapprochement. The appellant has pleaded and proved
specific instances of cruelty meted out by him at the hands of the
respondent which have been discussed in the preceding
paragraphs. Admittedly, they are residing separately since
30/7/2011. The Supreme Court of India in Samar Ghosh v. Jaya
Ghosh [(2007) 4 SCC 511] has held that insistence by one
spouse to preserve the dead marriage could be treated as an act
of cruelty. For all these reasons, we hold that the appellant has
made out a case for granting a dissolution of marriage on the
ground of cruelly u/s 13(1)(ia) of the Act. The court below went Mat.Appeal No.454/2018
wrong in dismissing the original petition for dissolution of
marriage.
Accordingly, we allow the appeal, set aside the impugned
judgment and allow OP No.484/2012 of the Family Court,
Irinjalakuda. The marriage between the appellant and the
respondent solemnized on 19/4/2008 stands dissolved. No order
as to costs.
Sd/-
A.MUHAMED MUSTAQUE JUDGE Sd/-
DR. KAUSER EDAPPAGATH JUDGE Rp Mat.Appeal No.454/2018
APPENDIX OF Mat.Appeal No.454/2018
APPELLANT'S EXHIBITS
ANNEXURE A1 TRUE COPY OF THE LIST PUBLISHED IN THE WEBSITE OF ST.THOMAS PUBLIC SCHOOL, DIPKA, KORBA OF THE YEAR 2013.
ANNEXURE A2 TRUE COPY OF THE LIST OF THE TEACHING STAFF PUBLISHED IN THE WEBSITE OF DELHI PUBLIC SCHOOL DATED 27/10/2018.
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