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Smt. Vandana Rajesh Mate vs Shri. Rajesh S/O. Shrinivas Mate
2021 Latest Caselaw 3203 Bom

Citation : 2021 Latest Caselaw 3203 Bom
Judgement Date : 18 February, 2021

Bombay High Court
Smt. Vandana Rajesh Mate vs Shri. Rajesh S/O. Shrinivas Mate on 18 February, 2021
Bench: A.S. Chandurkar, Nitin B. Suryawanshi
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     IN THE HIGH COURT OF JUDICATURE AT BOMBAY
               NAGPUR BENCH : NAGPUR.
      FAMILY COURT APPEAL (FCA) NO.80 OF 2015
                       WITH
      FAMILY COURT APPEAL (FCA) NO.81 OF 2015
                       WITH
   CRIMINAL REVISION APPLICATION NO.120 OF 2015

FAMILY COURT APPEAL (FCA) NO.80 OF 2015

      Smt. Vandana Rajesh Mate,
      Aged about 44 years, Occ-Housewife,
      R/o In the house of Roshan Meshram
      C/o Lokchand Salve, Near Ramteke
      Hotel, Balkrushna Mohalla, Indora,
      Nagpur.                                      (Org. Respondents
                                                    On R.A.)


                                                ... APPELLANT
              // Versus //
      Shri. Rajesh S/o Shrinivas Mate,
      Aged about 47 years, Occ. Social
      Welfare, R/o Nai Basti, Near
      Mangalwari Garden, nagpur                    (Org. Petitioner
                                                    on R.A.)



                                               ... RESPONDENT
                                 WITH
FAMILY COURT APPEAL (FCA) NO.81 OF 2015

      Smt. Vandana Rajesh Mate,
      Aged about 44 years, Occ-Housewife,
      R/o In the house of Roshan Meshram
      C/o Lokchand Salve, Near Ramteke
      Hotel, Balkrushna Mohalla, Indora,
      Nagpur.                                      (Org. Petitioner
                                                    On R.A.)


                                                ... APPELLANT
              // Versus //




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        Shri. Rajesh S/o Shrinivas Mate,
        Aged about 47 years, Occ. Social
        Welfare, R/o Nai Basti, Near
        Mangalwari Garden, nagpur                                      (Org. Respondent
                                                                        on R.A.)



                                                                   ... RESPONDENT
                                   WITH
CRIMINAL REVISION APPLICATION NO.120 OF 2015

        Smt. Vandana Rajesh Mate,
        Aged about 44 years, Occ-Housewife,
        R/o In the house of Roshan Meshram
        C/o Lokchand Salve, Near Ramteke
        Hotel, Balkrushna Mohalla, Indora,
        Nagpur.
                                                                    ... Petitioner
                // Versus //

        Shri. Rajesh S/o Shrinivas Mate,
        Aged about 47 years, Occ. Social
        Welfare, R/o Nai Basti, Near
        Mangalwari Garden, Nagpur
                                                                   ... RESPONDENT

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Shri. Y. B. Mandpe, Advocate for the appellant
Shri. C. G. Barapatre, Advocate for the respondent.
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                CORAM              :       A. S. CHANDURKAR AND
                                           N. B. SURYAWANSHI, JJ.

                RESERVED ON                  :           18/01/2021

                PRONOUNCED ON :                          18/02/2021

JUDGMENT (Per :N. B. SURYAWANSHI, J.)

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The present appeals fled by the appellant wife

under Section 19 of the Family Courts Act, 1984 challenge the

common judgment passed by the Family Court, Nagpur in

Petition No.A-365 of 2012 fled by the respondent husband for

divorce. The appellant wife assailing the decision of the Family

Court in Petition No.A-111 of 2013, thereby refusing her petition

for restitution of conjugal rights and by fling Criminal Revision

Application challenge the quantum of maintenance awarded by

the Family Court in Petition No.E-382 of 2012. Since all these

three decisions are given in a matrimonial dispute between the

appellant and the respondent, they are being decided by this

common judgment.

2. Petition No.A-365 of 2012.

The respondent fled this Petition under Section

13(1) (i-a) (i-b) of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 (for short, "the

said Act") seeking divorce on the ground of cruelty and

desertion in short contending that, the marriage between the

parties was solemnized on 19.12.2010 as per Buddhist Rites at

Nagpur. On the day of marriage with the wife, husband was

having two daughters namely Susmita and Ishita aged about

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ten years and fve years and an ailing 80 year old Mother. The

husband was a Corporator of Nagpur Municipal Corporation at

the time of marriage. The wife was aware about these facts

prior to the marriage. After marriage, the wife started residing

with the husband at his house near Mangalwari Garaden at

Nagpur. Parents of the wife used to reside at Indora area at

Nagpur. While getting married, the husband was under

impression that the wife would take care of his daughters and

ailing mother, but the wife neglected and refused to do any

household duties towards them. She was in the habit of

frequently visiting her parent's house. Every day, she was

taunting the husband in flthy language. She was beating the

daughters without just and sufcient cause. She did not

provide meals to his daughters and ailing mother. In spite of

understanding given to her by the husband and the elders of

both the families at several times, the behavior of the wife did

not change, she used to threaten him that she will commit

suicide and put him behind the bars. She was having more

afection towards her parents. He was frustrated with the

behavior of the wife. The wife left matrimonial home on

01.09.2011 by giving threats to commit suicide and putting him

behind the bars.

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3. The wife denied all the allegations by fling a written

statement. She averred that she cohabited with the husband

till 14.04.2012. Due to his adamant behavior, the husband

created an unhealthy atmosphere. He was treating her just as

a maid servant, although she was discharging her household

duties. Because of this abnormal behavior, it became unsafe

for her to live with him. Her health deteriorated due to the

continuous ill treatment given to her by the husband and it

gave her mental stress. She was never taken to the Doctor.

The husband neglected her. The husband and his mother

quarreled with the wife and threatened her with life and limb.

Apprehending danger to her life, she had to leave the

matrimonial home on 01.09.2011 and since then, she was living

at the mercy of her parents. She claimed that she was ready to

cohabit with the husband and his divorce petition be dismissed.

Petition No.A-111 of 2013

The wife reiterated the above contentions in Petition

No.A-111 of 2013 fled for restitution of conjugal rights and in

Petition No.E-382 of 2012 fled for maintenance under Section

125 Code of Criminal Procedure, 1973. She further admitted in

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the maintenance petition that the husband used to beat her

mercilessly. Whenever he used to go on tour for his business,

he used to drop her at her parent's house. Due to threats of

life, the wife apprehending danger to her life, was required to

leave the matrimonial home. Since 14.04.2012, she was living

with her parents. She further averred that the husband was

two times Corporator of Nagpur Municipal Corporation and was

having a Kerosene dealership and he also worked as a

Contractor and earns Rs.75,000/- per month. She claimed that

she was unable to earn and it was the husband's responsibility

to maintain her. Hence, she demanded maintenance

@ Rs.30,000/- per month.

The husband has reiterated his pleadings in the

written statement fled in the maintenance Petition No.A-365 of

2012.

4. The learned Family Court after recording the

evidence, decreed the divorce petition fled by the husband by

dissolving the marriage between the husband and wife,

dismissed the petition for restitution of conjugal rights fled by

the wife. The interim order passed in the maintenance

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proceedings, thereby granting maintenance @ Rs.1500/- per

month was confrmed w.e.f. the date of the decision. Being

aggrieved, the appellant wife has fled the present appeals and

criminal revision application.

5. Heard the learned advocate for the appellant and

the respondent.

6. The learned advocate for the appellant submitted

that there is no evidence on record to prove cruelty and that

the Family Court has erred in granting decree of dissolution of

marriage on the ground of cruelty. The allegations of the

respondent that the appellant used to go her maternal home

frequently and she refused to provide food to her mother-in-

law, etc. are vague and of a general nature. There is no proof of

cruelty. There is no material to justify the grant of decree of

divorce in favour of the respondent and for rejecting the prayer

of the appellant for restitution of conjugal rights. He further

submitted that the meager amount of Rs.1500/- per month was

awarded by the Family Court towards maintenance without

considering the price index prevailing at that time. He

therefore urged that the appeals and revision deserve to be

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allowed and the decree of divorce be set aside, the restitution

of conjugal rights may be allowed in favour of the appellant and

maintenance @ Rs.30,000/- per month be granted to the

appellant.

7. In support of his submissions, the learned advocate

for the appellant placed reliance on the ratio in :

a) Kishor s/o. Shamrao Dongre ..Vrs.. Smt. Rohini W/o.

Kishor Dongre, 2018(4) ALL MR 667

b) Vishnu S/o. Babanrao Yadav ..Vrs.. Nalini W/o. Vishnu

Yadav, 2018(6) ALL MR 629

8. Per contra, the learned advocate for the respondent

strenuously supported the judgment of the Family Court by

contending that the behavior of the appellant spells out cruelty

and the learned Family Court was justifed in granting the

decree in favour of the respondent. Resultantly, the petition for

restitution of conjugal rights was required to be dismissed. He

further submitted that no evidence is brought on record by the

appellant to prove the income of the respondent. In view of

that matter, the Family Court was justifed in awarding

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maintenance @ Rs.1500/- per month to the appellant, which

was reasonable.

9. Heard learned advocate for the parties at length. We

have gone through the record. After hearing the rival

submissions, following points arise for determination :

i) Whether the order of the Family Court

granting divorce in favour of the respondent is

legally correct ?

ii) Whether the appellant is entitled for the

decree of restitution of conjugal rights ?

iii) Whether the quantum of maintenance

awarded by the Family Court to the appellant

requires interference ?

iv) What order ?

10. To decide the controversy, it is necessary to consider

the evidence on record.

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11. The wife fled her afdavit in lieu of evidence at Exh-

13 in maintenance petition and at Exh-17 petition for restitution

of conjugal rights. The wife did not lead separate evidence in

divorce petition and the husband did not lead separate

evidence in maintenance proceedings and in restitution of

conjugal rights petition. The learned Family Court, therefore,

passed an order to read the evidence adduced by both the

parties in all these three petitions.

12. The wife in her evidence deposed in terms of the

pleadings in restitution and maintenance proceedings. In cross-

examination except giving suggestions which she has denied

nothing damaging the case of the wife could be brought on

record by the husband. She denied that she was frequently

visiting her parent's house. She further admitted that once

when she was going to the parent's house by Auto, her golden

chain went missing. She did not lodge any complaint regarding

it as the husband did not allow her to lodge the complaint. She

admitted that, her old mother-in-law was always sick and

required medical expenses. Except this, there is nothing in

cross-examination of the wife, which would help the case of the

husband.

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13. In the maintenance proceedings, the wife fled

afdavit in lieu of evidence in terms of the contentions raised in

the maintenance petition. She was already cross-examined in

the restitution petition and also in respect of maintenance

proceedings.

14. The husband fled an afdavit of evidence at Exh-17

in terms of the pleadings in his divorce petition. In cross-

examination the husband admitted that, he did not send any

notice to the wife before fling the divorce petition. He did not

attempt to fetch his wife through any other institution. He

claimed that he was working with the building material supplier

Mr. Dhananjay Thakre as a supervisor and that he was in a

position to produce the document to that efect. He was called

upon to produce the document of his employment. According

to him, he was not required to go out of Nagpur when he was a

Corporator, but at the time of deposition, he used to go out of

Nagpur if there was some work. He further admitted that he

never reported the wife's cruelty towards him to the Police. He

also did not complain about the wife's behavior of not giving

medicine and food to his mother. He denied that he used to

harass the wife and he drove her out of the matrimonial home.

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He deposed that even if the wife was ready to cohabit with him,

he was not ready to take her along. He denied the rest of the

suggestions with respect to his income and about the property

held by him through benami transactions.

15. On careful scrutiny of the evidence brought on

record by the parties, it is clear that there is no evidence

presented by the respondent to prove the cruelty of the

appellant. The allegations of the respondent about the

behavior of the appellant are of general nature and vague. The

allegations that the appellant was in the habit of frequently

visiting her parent's house and that she was neglecting the

respondent's mother and daughters are not proved by the

respondent. The respondent has admitted that he did not issue

any notice to the appellant. He also did not attempt to fetch

her through any other institution, before fling of petition. He

admitted that he did not complain to anybody about the

behavior of the appellant of not giving food and medicine to his

ailing mother. His further admission that even if the appellant

is ready to cohabit with him, he was not willing to take her

along, shows his adamant and unreasonable approach. These

allegations apart from the fact that they are of general nature,

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they can be said to be outcome of normal wear and tear of the

married life, but they defnitely fall short of proving any cruelty

on the part of the appellant.

16. In Savitri Pandey ...Vrs... Prem Chandra Pandey, AIR

2002 SC 591, the Hon'ble Supreme Court held :

"Mental cruelty is the conduct of the other spouse which causes mental sufering or fear to the matrimonial life of the other. "Cruelty", therefore, postulates of a treatment of the petitioner with such cruelty as to cause a reasonable apprehension in his or her mind that it would be harmful or injurious for the petitioner to live with the other party. Cruelty, however, has to be distinguished from the ordinary wear and tear of family life. It cannot be decided on the basis of the sensitivity of the petitioner and has to be adjudged on the basis of the course of conduct which would, in general, be dangerous for a spouse to live with the other".

If we apply this ratio to the facts of the present

case, it is clear that there is no iota of evidence brought on

record by the respondent to prove cruelty as contemplated

under Section 13(1) (i-a) of the said Act. There is no

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material on record which spells out the cruelty on the part of

the appellant. The respondent failed to prove that the

conduct of the appellant for a long time caused feelings of

deep anguish, disappointment and frustration in the

respondent and her such conduct actually afected the

physical and mental health of the respondent. No evidence

was led by the respondent for proving these aspects

showing cruelty in the conduct of the appellant .

17. In Samar Ghosh ..Vrs.. Jaya Ghosh , (2007) SCC 511,

the Hon'ble Supreme Court explained the nature and scope

of mental cruelty as the ground for divorce by holding

that :

"101. No uniform standard can ever be laid down for guidance, yet we deem it appropriate to enumerate some instances of human behaviour which may be relevant in dealing with the cases of "mental cruelty". The instances indicated in the succeeding paragraphs are only illustrative and not exhaustive :

iv) Mental cruelty is a state of mind. The feeling of deep anguish, disappointment, frustration in one spouse caused by the conduct of other for a long

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time may lead to mental cruelty.

vi) Sustained unjustifable conduct and behavior of one spouse actually afecting physical and mental health of the other spouse. The treatment complained of and the resultant danger or apprehension must be very grave, substantial and weighty."

Applying this ratio to the facts of the present case, it

is explicitly clear that the respondent has failed to make out a

specifc case that any particular conduct of the appellant

amounted to cruelty. No evidence was brought on record by

the respondent to show that the conduct of the appellant falls

within the instances enumerated in this decision.

18. The learned advocate for the appellant was justifed

in relying upon the ratio in Vishnu Babanrao Yadav (supra)

wherein it is held :

"18. From the perusal of entire evidence placed on record, we are of the considered view that the allegations made by the Appellant against Respondent regarding cruelty are too vague and general. A decree of divorce on the ground of cruelty cannot be granted on the basis of general

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allegations levelled by the husband against the wife, without clearly mentioning the manner in which the wife has ill-treated the husband. General allegations that the wife used to avoid the husband and his family members and that she used to often visit her parental house and was not preparing food for the husband, was not opening the door of the house after his return to home, cannot constitute cruelty."

The above ratio is laid down in somewhat similar

facts and the same is squarely applicable to the facts of the

present case. The ratio in Kishor Shamrao Dongre (supra) also

supports the case of the appellant.

In the light of the observations of the Hon'ble

Supreme Court and this Court quoted herein above, in our

considered view, the respondent had failed to make out any

case for grant of decree of divorce in his favour on the ground

of cruelty. The allegations of the respondent about the conduct

of the appellant are of general nature and they at the most can

be termed as normal wear and tear of married life.

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19. The learned Family Court has recorded the following

fndings :

That, the appellant got fed up of maintaining the

husband, his ailing old mother and both the children and

therefore, she left the matrimonial home, that there does not

appear any cruelty on the husband's part towards the wife due

to which she was constrained to leave him, that the appellant

has not adduced evidence any to show that the respondent was

not allowing her to talk with the neighbor, that the appellant

has failed to bring on record any such business of the

respondent for which he used to go on business tours, that the

possibility cannot be ruled out that because of such lazy

behavior of the appellant, the respondent must have asked her

for the reasons (of losing chain) and then to avoid it, she left

her matrimonial home on 01.09.2011 and that the appellant

failed to discharge her duty towards the Family and hence, such

defciency can certainly entail sort cruelty to husband.

20. According to us, these fndings are contrary to the

evidence on record and based on surmises and conjectures.

Unwarranted inferences are drawn by the learned Family Court

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while recording the above fndings. These fndings are not

supported by proper reasons.

21. In absence of any evidence on record to prove the

cruelty of such a degree as contemplated by catena of the

decisions of this Court as well as of the Hon'ble Supreme Court,

the learned Family Court was not justifed in ignoring the said

law and the meaning of cruelty explained in them. Since the

fndings of the learned Family Court are contrary to the

evidence on record, they are unsustainable. In our considered

view, the learned Family Court has recorded perverse fndings

and the common impugned judgment of the learned Family

Court in Petition Nos.A-365/2012, E-382/2012 and A-111/2013 is

unsustainable and the same is liable to be set aside. The point

no. i, is answered accordingly.

22. For the aforestated reasons, since we have come to

the conclusion that the decree of divorce granted in favour of

the respondent is unsustainable, for the same reasons and

taking into consideration the fact that the appellant has shown

her willingness to go for cohabitation with the respondent, the

fact that before fling petition for divorce, the respondent did

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not make any attempts to fetch the appellant back, his

categorical admission that even if the appellant is ready to

cohabit with him, he is not ready to do so, he did not issue any

notice to her, the wife is entitled for releif. We are of the

considered view that the appellant has made out a case for

grant of decree for restitution of conjugal rights in her favour.

We answer the point no. ii accordingly.

23. So far as the maintenance proceedings is concerned,

the neglect and refusal on the part of the respondent is proved

by the appellant. The respondent has admitted in his evidence

that he was Corporator of Nagpur Municipal Corporation for two

terms. He claimed that he was working as a supervisor with

the building material supplier Mr. Dhananjay Thakre. Though

he was called upon to produce document in respect of his

employment, he has not fled the same, therefore, adverse

interference needs to be drawn against him. Since the said fact

was within special knowledge of the respondent, he was

expected to bring evidence on record about his income. Though

the appellant has claimed that the respondent is doing a

kerosene business, she could not bring any evidence on record

to prove the same. The learned Family Court has awarded

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maintenance @ Rs.1500/- per month from the date of order.

The interim maintenance at that rate was granted to the

appellant, according to us, the said amount is grossly

inadequate to maintain a lady. Taking into consideration the

rising price index, the status of the parties, we are of the

opinion that the appellant is entitled for maintenance @

Rs.5,000/- per month from the date of her maintenance

application i.e. from 18.09.2012. The learned Family Court

without assigning any reason has erroneously proceeded to

award maintenance to the appellant from the date of order.

There is nothing on record to show that the proceedings were

prolonged at the behest of the appellant. In that view the

Family Court ought to have allowed the maintenance to the

appellant from the date of application. We fnd that the said

decision is also contrary to the ratio of latest decision of the

Hon'ble Supreme Court in Rajnesh ..Vrs.. Neha and others,

2020(13) SCALE 29, wherein it has laid down the guidelines

to be followed in the matter of the maintenance and has

mandated that the maintenance should be awarded from the

date of fling of the application.

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24. For the aforestated reasons, we pass the following

order :

1) The Family Court Appeal No.80 of 2015 and Family

Court Appeal No.81 of 2015 are allowed.

2) The judgment and decree passed by the Family

Court in Petition No. A-111 of 2013 is set aside and the petition

fled by the wife seeking a decree of restitution of conjugal

rights is allowed and a decree of restitution of conjugal rights is

issued in her favour.

3) The judgment and decree passed by the Family

Court in Petition No.A-365 of 2012 is set aside and the petition

fled by the respondent is dismissed.

4) The Criminal Revision Application No.120 of 2015 is

allowed by modifying the judgment of the Family Court in

Petition No.E-382 of 2012 to the efect that the revision

petitioner wife is held entitled for maintenance @ Rs.5,000/-

per month which shall be paid to her from the date of fling of

maintenance petition i.e. from 13.04.2012.

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5) The arrears of maintenance shall be deposited by

the respondent within a period of eight weeks from today.

                                  JUDGE                 JUDGE




TAMBE





 

 
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